Unmanned: How the 21st century man is leaving his post

Unmanned:  How the 21st century man is leaving his post
A few months ago, Ronald Bailey wrote a post on his blog at Reason.comcalled “The War on Men is Working” in which he quotes another blogby a University of Michigan economist, Mark Perry, regarding some recent Bureau of Labor statistics study. Here is the quoted section of Mr. Perry’s blog.

“[The BLS Study] includes data on educational attainment at ages 23, 24, and 25 by gender from a longitudinal survey of 9,000 young men and women who were born between 1980 and 1984. For each of the three ages reported (23, 24, and 25) there is a significant gender gap favoring women for college degrees, and for the youngest cohort of 23-year-olds the gender disparity is huge: there are 165 women in the sample who have graduated from college at age 23 for every 100 of their male peers. (his emphasis) Also, at each age group there are more women currently enrolled in college than men (e.g. at age 23, 17.3% of women are enrolled in college vs. 16.8% of men), so there is really no chance that the college-degree gender gap will close in the future.”

Interestingly enough, Ronald Bailey also brings attention to a Pew poll released last year, “Two-thirds (66%) of young women ages 18 to 34 rate career high on their list of life priorities, compared with 59% of young men. In 1997, 56% of young women and 58% of young men felt the same way.

Obviously, career as a priority sky-rocketed  for young women between the study and 1997 while the rate for men stayed virtually the same.   So, more women are obtaining college degrees than men, and presumably, are aiming higher.

The fact that the percentage of men claiming career as a high priority has stayed the same, while the rate of men earning college degrees (compared to women) has gone down suggests that, men, perhaps are not dreaming as big – shooting for careers not requiring a college education.

Mr. Bailey closes his blog post with the humorous observation that, “giventhese trends, the dating scene for guys who do go to college must be awesome.”

Funny you should say that, Ronald. According to the New York Times, it is.

“North Carolina, with a student body that is nearly 60 percent female, is just one of many large universities that at times feel eerily like women’s colleges. Women have represented about 57 percent of enrollments at American colleges since at least 2000, according to a recent report by the American Council on Education. Researchers there cite several reasons: women tend to have higher grades; men tend to drop out in disproportionate numbers; and female enrollment skews higher among older students, low-income students, and black and Hispanic students…

…Needless to say, this puts guys in a position to play the field, and tends to mean that even the ones willing to make a commitment come with storied romantic histories. Rachel Sasser, a senior history major at the table, said that before she and her boyfriend started dating, he had “hooked up with a least five of my friends in my sorority — that I know of.”

These sorts of romantic complications are hardly confined to North Carolina, an academically rigorous school where most students spend more time studying than socializing. The gender imbalance is also pronounced at some private colleges, such as New York University and Lewis & Clark in Portland, Ore., and large public universities in states like California, Florida and Georgia. The College of Charleston, a public liberal arts college in South Carolina, is 66 percent female. Some women at the University of Vermont, with an undergraduate body that is 55 percent female, sardonically refer to their college town, Burlington, as “Girlington.”

So, according to “researchers,” women are trying harder (higher grades,) dropping out less, and enrolling more often.  The guys that do attend and don’t drop out are very busy with extra-curricular activities.  That’s coming from the liberal New York Times which is apparently naive enough to actually believe that,”most students spend more time studying than socializing.”

This is not an encouraging commentary on the young collegiate male in general.

At this point, much could be said, I am sure, about the change in America’s education system and the ways in which America’s students have changed in their passion for knowledge and desire to learn and have given in to the myriad distractions and entertainments.  I, unfortunately, am not equipped to discuss it.  I once started to read Professor Alan Bloom’s relevant book about the subject, “The Closing of the American Mind,” but I didn’t get very far past the part where he says today’s students don’t have the attention span required for traditional academia.

So, in review, more women than men are interested in college and more women than men graduate from college.  The men who do go to college have a pretty wide range of distractions to choose from.

Now, let’s swing over to an opinion piece on FoxNews.comby Suzanne Venker entitled, “The War on Men.”

“The battle of the sexes is alive and well. According to Pew Research Center, the share of women ages eighteen to thirty-four that say having a successful marriage is one of the most important things in their lives rose nine percentage points since 1997 – from 28 percent to 37 percent. For men, the opposite occurred. The share voicing this opinion dropped, from 35 percent to 29 percent.

Believe it or not, modern women want to get married. Trouble is, men don’t.

The so-called dearth of good men (read: marriageable men) has been a hot subject in the media as of late. Much of the coverage has been in response to the fact that for the first time in history, women have become the majority of the U.S. workforce. They’re also getting most of the college degrees. The problem? This new phenomenon has changed the dance between men and women. ”

Suzanne’s article proved to be quite controversial because she went on to conclude that, “Men want to love women, not compete with them. They want to provide for and protect their families – it’s in their DNA. But modern women won’t let them.”

Perhaps because she’s a woman she feels the need to blame women.  I have the opposite problem.  I have no doubt that in some – probably many – cases, if the modern woman became a lady, the modern man would become a gentleman.  But I don’t think that man’s character chasm is woman’s responsibility.  If anything, Biblically, it should be the other way around.

So, fewer men than women are graduating from college and pursuing careers and men don’t want to get married.

Men also, tragically, don’t want to be dads.  From the New York Times, Itused to be called illegitimacy. Now it is the new normal. After steadily rising for five decades, the share of children born to unmarried women has crossed a threshold: more than half of births to American women under 30 occur outside marriage.”

Tied to that startling tidbit, is this most recent revelation from Pew, “A record 40% of all households with children under the age of 18 include mothers who are either the sole or primary source of income for the family, according to a new Pew Research Center analysis of data from the U.S. Census Bureau. The share was just 11% in 1960.”

With perhaps a few exceptions, we don’t have the excuse of fighting off vicious attacks by “femi-nazis.”  We don’t have men being kicked out of colleges or not being allowed to marry.  In most cases, women are not withholding their children from their fathers.  It may be hard for a man to find a job in this economy, but apparently women aren’t having the same problem.

What we do have is a lot of men who are not stepping up to their responsibilities.  The statistics above show this!  Could anyone say with a straight face that men have fewer opportunities than women?

So what’s wrong with the 21st century man?

I said before that I don’t like the term “war on men,” but perhaps it is more appropriate than I thought.  There is no human war on men.

Satan, however, attacks on every side, placating man’s need for sexual intimacy with porn and cheap hook ups, pacifying man’s need to be a protector and hero in the real world with video games which allow him to be a warrior in the virtual world, and deadening man’s desire to be the leader of his family with a false vision of foolish and feeble sitcom fatherhood.

We have a culture which sneers at gender roles, but we have no voice to counter it.  The church needs to realize that this is a serious issue, pick up the megaphone, and let men know that they were created for a purpose.

“Be fruitful and multiply,” was a divine commission for the family to fulfill the roles that God designed for each member to live out.

The Bible has a lot to say about what God expects of His men, and central to that is His placement of man at the head of the family.  After all, Ephesians 5:23 says that “the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church,” and verse 25 calls husband to love their wives “as Christ loved the church.”  The family unit is designed to point the observers to Christ and how He loves His church, “[giving] Himself up for her.”

No wonder Satan has thrown so much at men!  Can you imagine the implications for evangelism if every Christian family was a portrait of the sacrificial love of Christ for the church?

If you are interested in learning more about Biblical manhood and womanhood, I would point you to a couple of sermon series’ that have helped me out by Pastor Eric Mason, which can be found here. Look for the “Newmanity” and “Eve Redeemed” series.

Another excellent resource we recommend is “Recovering Biblical Manhood & Womanhood” by John Piper and Wayne Grudem.

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Sex? Scandalous? Yes to both on ABC’s “Mistresses.”

Sex?  Scandalous?  Yes to both on ABC’sMistresses.”
Last week we alerted you to the premiere of a new ABC show “Mistresses.”  You should be able to guess from the title what this show is about.

We were greatly encouraged to see the overwhelming response from you, our readers, in contacting the sponsors of “Mistresses” last week.  Advertisers’ inboxes were flooded with thousands of emails!

Please continue to stand with us as we keep the pressure upon the sponsors of this trashy show.

Take Action!  Click here to express your disgust to the advertisers empowering ABC’s “Mistresses.”

This is how ABC describes the show on its own website:  “Mistresses is a provocative and thrilling drama about the scandalous lives of a sexy and sassy group of four girlfriends, each on her own path to self-discovery.”

Sex?  Scandalous?  Yes to both on “Mistresses.”  However, there is nothing “thrilling” about committing adultery.  And destroying marriages and breaking vows does not equate to “self-discovery.”

“Mistresses” has been described by entertainment writers as a “guilty pleasure” – a term the show’s executive producer, Rina Mimoun, embraces, stating:  “I embrace the term because it is soapy …  Any time you take off your clothes a lot, you get a little guilty, so that’s fine. We’ve got a lot of naked boys and girls running around, so it’s a little guilty, but there’s more to it than that.”

Ad agencies and the entertainment industry tell us that “sex sells.”  Well, not everyone is buying. 

Millions of Americans are fed up with this type of salacious “entertainment” and are tuning out.  Numerous comments posted on ABC’s web page for the show “Mistresses” reveal viewers’ disgust.  Here are a few of those comments:

–          “I will not be watching this garbage, a show about mistress? Women who contribute to the decay of marriage, sorry ABC big failure here. The title alone turns me off. I am an avid watcher of ABC shows but this is one I will be skipping.”

–          “Way too much Sex in the first 30 min. WHY did it take 30 min to get to a story line. …”

–          “Disgusting premise. …”

–          “Really? A show about mistresses?? Speaking for me, I will NOT be watching this as I’ve already lived it in real life, and do not think this kind of behavior should be glorified. Do the writers/producers have any idea what kind of pain the person cheated on goes through? How dare you even think about putting this show on the air.”

–          “This show looks like such trash. Come on ABC, you can do better. I double the hope this show tanks!”

–          “I agree this concept is just really disgusting and not the type of morality we should be pushing onto kids, and this is coming from someone who is extremely liberal, I understand wanting to be edgy but this is just wrong.”

Take Action!  Click here to express your disgust to the advertisers empowering this trashy show.

Sponsors include:

McDonald’s Kraft – Ritz crackers K-Mart Sears Outback Steakhouse Red Robin Chevrolet Old Navy Calvin Klein Walt Disney Pictures Farmer’s Insurance Capital One Bayer – Midol Dove lotion – Unilever Tresemme shampoo – Unilever Frutare ice cream bars – Unilever Advil Volkswagen Samsung Columbia Pictures 20th Century Fox

 

The 50 Rip-Off Charities: Give at Your Own Risk

I always believed that giving to a good cause or helping victims of a disaster was a noble thing to do.  I mean, “There but for the grace of God go I”, right? With the recent uncovering of scandals within the government, more and more investigators are digging to uncover other cases of fraud and mismanagement. Is nothing sacred anymore?

A recent investigation exposed by CNN, The Center for Investigative Reporting and the Tampa Bay Times have found that there are dozens and dozens of charities that basically do next to nothing for the causes they raise money for.

50 of the worst charities were looked at and it was concluded that they received 1 billion dollars over the last ten years, but the charities received only 50 million.  Where did the money go?  Well, the majority of the funds collected went to solicitors.  These are the people who go out and raise the funds and collect the donations.  This basically amounts to them raising money to pay themselves.

There are still many, many charities that actually distribute the majority of the monies collected to the intended recipients but these days it is wise to look before you open your wallet.  For instance, one of the worst charities listed is an organization called “Kids Wish Network” that is supposed to collect money for terminally ill children and grant their wishes.  Sound suspiciously familiar?  The name is awfully close to the very legitimate “Make A Wish Foundation” which promises the same thing.

This is where the donor can be conned.  Many people are told the names of these organizations and they feel that they have heard of them and what they do, so out comes the checkbook.  Unfortunately they don’t realize that the “Kids Wish Network” raised $127 million dollars, paid their solicitors $109 million, paid their employees most of the remaining funds leaving less than 3% for granting wishes!

The 50 worst charities give less than 4% of donations raised to direct cash aid.  One diabetes charity raised almost $14 million dollars over a ten year period and gave about $10,000 to patients.  Another cancer charity paid a company owned by the president’s son almost $18 million dollars over eight years to solicit funds.

The specific kinds of charities that pay for-profit corporations to raise the majority of their donations regularly give their solicitors over two-thirds of the take.  Good charities should spend no more than 35 cents to raise a dollar.

So the reality is that the “50 worst charities raised more than $1.3 billion over the past decade and paid nearly $1 billion of that to the companies that raise their donations”. Out of $1.3 billion dollars the charities received less than 4%.  Had that money gone to the charities in the correct way it would have been able to build 20,000 Habitat For Humanity Homes, 7 million wheelchairs or provide nearly 10 million uninsured women, mammograms.

There are hundreds if not thousands of these “bad” charities that are taking money from sincere donors who faithfully believe that their hard earned money is going to the people it was intended for. Particularly disheartening are the Veterans organizations that “pretend” to send aid to disabled vets.  The sad part is that many Veterans organizations ARE legitimate and they have to defend themselves because some other dishonest charity has poisoned the well.

In the wake of the IRS scandals, one would think that the “red flags” would have been raised on these organizations when their papers were filed every year.  That however was not the case.  The IRS was too busy targeting “Tea Party” and conservative groups to check on the American people being ripped off by the hundreds of millions of dollars.

The bottom line is we live in a world where fraud and deceit are running rampant.  These “rip-off” charities have no qualms about taking our money and keeping it for themselves.  Before donating, do your due diligence and check out the list of the 50 worst charities.  Our money should go where we intend it to and if the government won’t help monitor this situation then like everything else, we have to do it ourselves.

Morgan BrittanyFollow @twitterapi

Morgan now spends much of her time devoted to military organizations and other conservative causes.  Her greatest passion is speaking on behalf of the greatness of America!

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Isaiah 54:5 Thy Redeemer.

Jesus, the Redeemer, is altogether ours and ours for ever. All the offices of Christ are held on our behalf. He is king for us, priest for us, and prophet for us. Whenever we read a new title of the Redeemer, let us appropriate Him as ours under that name as much as under any other. The shepherd’s staff, the father’s rod, the captain’s sword, the priest’s mitre, theprince’s sceptre, the prophet’s mantle, all are ours. Jesus hath no dignity which He will not employ for our exaltation, and no prerogative which He will not exercise for our defence. His fulness of Godhead is our unfailing, inexhaustible treasure-house. His manhood also, which he took upon him for us, is ours in all its perfection. To us our gracious Lord communicates the spotless virtue of a stainless character; to us he gives the meritorious efficacy of a devoted life; on us he bestows the reward procured by obedient submission and incessant service. He makes the unsullied garment of his life our covering beauty; the glittering virtues of his character our ornaments and jewels; and the superhuman meekness of his death our boast and glory. He bequeaths us his manger, from which to learn how God came down to man; and his Cross to teach us how man may go up to God. All His thoughts, emotions, actions, utterances, miracles, and intercessions, were for us. He trod the road of sorrow on our behalf, and hath made over to us as his heavenly legacy the full results of all the labours of his life. He is now as much ours as heretofore; and he blushes not to acknowledge himself “our Lord Jesus Christ,” though he is the blessed and only Potentate, the King of kings, and Lord of lords. Christ everywhere and every way is our Christ, for ever and ever most richly to enjoy. O my soul, by the power of the Holy Spirit! call him this morning, “thy Redeemer.”

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